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Wedding Reading – Excerpt from ‘The Five People You Meet In Heaven’

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Every life has one true-love snapshot.

For Eddie, it came on a warm September night after a thunderstorm, when the boardwalk was spongy with water. She wore a yellow cotton dress, with a pink barrette in her hair. Eddie didn’t say much. He was so nervous he felt as if his tongue were glued to his teeth. They danced to the music of a big band, Long Legs Delaney and his Everglades Orchestra. He bought her a lemon fizz.

She said she had to go before her parents got angry. But as she walked away, she turned and waved.
That was the snapshot.

For the rest of his life, whenever he thought of Marguerite, Eddie would see that moment, her waving over her shoulder, her dark hair falling over one eye, and he would feel the same arterial burst of love.

That night he came home and woke his older brother, Joe. He told him he’d met the girl he was going to marry.

Excerpt from The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom

Life Has Taught Us That Love…

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward together in the same direction.

Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Part Three – Seven Things to Cut From Your Wedding & Save Your Budget

Tuesday, June 9th, 2009

3. A Fancy (read EXPENSIVE) Wedding Topper – Sure, it might look nice to have the traditional ceramic or otherwise, mini bride and groom on the top of your wedding cake. Or those monogrammed letter cake toppers. Or fun to have the bobble head bride and groom. But really, if you are trying to cut your budget, this is the thing to slash. Why not substitute the topper with a few blooms that match those in your bouquet? Much cheaper and still looks great.

More ideas of things to cut from your wedding…coming soon!

Good luck & happy planning!
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Wedding Reading From The Notebook…

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

I am nothing special. Of this, I am sure.

I am a common man with common thoughts, and I’ve led a common life.

There are no monuments dedicated to me and my name will soon be forgotten, but, I loved another with all my heart and soul, and to me this has always been enough.

Excerpt from the movie “The Notebook“.

How to Make your Diamond Look Bigger While Spening Less

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

When buying a diamond, here are some tips to help you spend a little less of your hard earned dollars and still come away with something that looks like you’ve lost your mind and spent a fortune. The cut, setting and shape are the key. Here are five ways to select diamonds, be it a wedding ring, earrings, or anything else, to make it look like you have more carats then you actually do:

1. Side Stones

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A very classic style right now is the three stone engagement ring.  The stones are said to represent yesterday, today and tomorrow.  Its no coincidence that this setting ranks among the top engagement ring styles.  When you have smaller side stones, there are more facets, more light catching angles and more oomph. which is what we all want, right girls?

2. Bezel Setting

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When a diamond is completely encircled by a rim, it is called bezel setting.  When set in platinum or white gold, the diamonds appear as one unit and look bigger than their individual parts.

3. One Word – Pavé

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The pavé setting is so beautiful and it looks like a complete surface of diamonds but in reality, its many, many diamond clustered in tiny holes sitting in and on the band.  Think of it as a ring ‘paved’ with diamonds.  Although, the diamonds in a pavé setting will cost far less than one big single diamond, it is very labour intensive to set, so keep this in mind when looking.

4. Fancy Diamond Shapes

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Cuts like the oval, marquis or the pear are considered fancy shaped diamonds.  The shapes cost less and usually look larger than round diamonds of equal weight.

5. Illusion Setting

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Mounting the diamond on a mirror-type plate before setting it into the band, is called an illusion setting. The mirror-plate in the back reflects more light and makes the setting appear larger and more brilliant.  Many vintage rings have this type of setting.  Do keep in mind that repairing this type of setting is more difficult and more costly as a result.

Good luck!  Happy wedding!

jennifer How to Make your Diamond Look Bigger While Spening Less

Wedding Cake Trends – Move Over Fondant, Here Comes Buttercream!

Monday, June 1st, 2009

By Sarah Bogle

This year has marked a turning point in wedding cakes — buttercream icing is in, fondant icing is out! Abandoning their dreams of beautiful cakes devoid of taste, brides are choosing wedding cakes that showcase taste as well as style. Bakers have seen the rise in requests for buttercream frosting with a smooth iced finish.

For me, this is a trend long overdue! An avid lover of all types of cakes (and yes, my waistline does show it a bit), I have been disappointed with most wedding cakes in the last few years. I will never forget the excitement I felt while admiring the most beautiful cake I had ever seen. The bride’s cake was a replica of a stunning European cathedral — complete with bell tower, stained glass windows, and baptistery. All the guests circled the cake table in admiration of the meticulously detailed fondant cake. None of the guests could wait to dig in!

But to all our dismay, the fondant was as as crispy and dry as melba toast. The flavorless cake was devoid of taste and lacked moisture. We drank our beverages to add enough liquid to swallow our first bite, then set our plates aside with disappointment. Plate after plate of uneaten wedding cake covered the dining tables. It was then that I realized it wasn’t enough for a cake to beautiful…it had to be edible and tasty too!

Don’t let this happen to you. In these tight economic times, save your money on intricately detailed cakes in favor of one whose taste is impressively delicious. Embrace traditional buttercream icings and preserve fillings. Ask your baker for their top flavor offerings. And, don’t underestimate the love everyone has for a moist white cake with buttercream frosting. After all, who doesn’t love a simple but freshly made cake?

Sarah Bogle is a wedding style expert and published author. After months of searching for unique & personalized wedding favors for her own wedding, she was disappointed by the lackluster options on the market. So with an entrepreneurial spirit, she formed her own artisan soap company to fill the void. Over a decade later, the Artisan Soap Shoppe LLC continues to provide truly custom wedding favors and bridal party gifts at a cost competitive price point.Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Sarah_Bogle

Part Two – Seven Things to Cut From Your Wedding & Save Your Budget

Tuesday, May 26th, 2009

Ready for some more ideas on how to cut frivolous stuff from your wedding? Here’s part two!

2. Most Guest Favours – Who wants a 2×3 picture frame or a pair of candles shaped like a heart? How about a keychain with your names and wedding date engraved on it? Really anything with your names and wedding date on it will be pretty much not be appreciated. Think about all the time you spend planning, and then, the money these little ‘gifts’ end up costing you to buy and often assemble, only be let on the table for the hotel staff to…yes, throw out. If you want to give your guests a small token of thanks, make sure its something that they will like and notice. And if you can’t think of anything that would fit that bill, then make a donation in each of your guest’s names to a charity that is close to your heart. Then just leave a small card at each place setting informing them of this donation. And no, you should not tell them how much you donated.

Stay tuned for more next week when I will give you part three…

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Love Ever Gives By John Oxenham

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

Love ever gives,
Forgives,
outlives,
And ever stands
With open hands.

And while it lives,
It gives.

For this is loves prerogative
O give, and give, and give.

John Oxenham